Twice recently I was told that I was being too negative. Usually when I am told that, I feel it’s because I’m pointing out something that needs improvement or change, and those involved are trying to keep the “status quo” rather than fix the problem. This time was different. Those pointing out my negativity were not concerned about a project or an issue, but about my bad attitude. I was expressing criticism and critique not to improve something, but simply to express my frustration. I was being negative!
For those who wonder how full time religious work can affect the attitude of those doing it, just ask someone in full time religious work! It’s hard, exhausting and often thankless work, with long hours, under difficult conditions, providing counsel and encouragement to people who often don’t seem to appreciate the counsel or encouragement that’s offered. There are easier ways to make a living!!
It’s very easy under these circumstances to become
cynical and negative, but it still doesn’t justify maintaining a negative
attitude. What do the Scriptures teach us to do regardless of how we feel: Focus on the L-RD, correct your thinking
& rejoice! After the second rebuke about my negativity, I
remembered Shaul’s words from prison in Philippians 4:4,5 & 8 and became
immediately convicted:
“4Rejoice in the L-RD always—again I will say, rejoice! 5Let your gentleness be known to all people. The L-RD is near. 8 Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is honorable, whatever is just, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is commendable—if there is any virtue and if there is anything worthy of praise—dwell on these things.” (TLV)
Conviction is good for my soul. I’m going to take a couple days off from my religious work, and work on improving my attitude!
Forward for Messiah,
Rabbi Kirk
Gliebe
